Human(Kind)

Starred review from February 10, 2020
Eiland shares in her revealing and enthralling debut her journey as a black woman struggling to find her place. When around mostly white people, Eiland felt isolated, but she didn’t quite fit in in predominantly black communities, either, and her friends accused her of being black on the outside and white on the inside. Using this feeling of disconnection as an impetus for self-examination, Eiland considers how her experiences shaped her and illustrates through personal stories her discovery of self-worth, such as how she found a lifelong friendships through a predominately Asian Christian fellowship group. Likewise, she encourages readers practice “radical kindness” to themselves and toward others; “Kindness will be able to undo the damage we’ve done because it’s the secret weapon for detecting intrinsic worth found in every person.” Drawing on experiences that capture “a gateway to humankindness,” she expounds on themes such as sacrifice, honor, respect, acceptance, gratitude, rejection, commitment, and loss. She also provides questions for personal reflection at the end of each themed chapter. Though not targeted to a strictly religious audience, Eiland’s insightful take is informed by her faith. Readers looking to cultivate more empathy—toward others and toward themselves— will enjoy Eiland’s wise testament.

Starred review from May 1, 2020

Eiland (formation & preaching pastor, Mars Hill Bible Church, MI) invites readers to explore and understand her personal experiences with racism: she was the only black girl in majority white surroundings; yet, considered not black enough within black communities. In this debut, the author shares stories of her family, holiday celebrations, and family loss, along with getting into the college of her dreams only to have her joy taken away by a cruel remark. Throughout her journey, Eiland discovers her strength through a Christian-centered approach. She shares her stories and offers Scriptural references to teach us how to dig deeper into ourselves to create a more authentic life. By asking readers to see the imago Dei (image of God) in people, the author believes we can create a more peaceful coexistence with one another. Her message will resonate with a variety of people, especially those interested in pastoral counseling and community engagement. VERDICT This wonderfully written book packs a punch, and would be ideal for book clubs in a library or church setting. Eiland's story will move readers and her urging to recognize the good in people is inspirational.--Jacqueline Parascandola, Univ. of Pennsylvania, PA

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